At the outset when elder sister and love of elder sister's husband wedding dresses, the mother does not agree stoutly, say he also stopped without culture, connect a honest craft to also be done not have, follow a person to go out to build a house all the day, make short-term work. I read an university in provincial capital in those days, experience crosses the mother with bustling town, of one mind is longing for an elder sister to be able to be married an oppidan. I help elder sister conversation, saying construction industry also is not who is able, at least must have a good body, be in a country, the ground can be planted, can more than one portion energy goes out to make bit of money more, already pretty good. The mother does not have utter sth, half talent spits: What builds project, look in oppidan, it is a laborer nevertheless stopped.
The mother is summed up one sentence this, make a family member silent for a long time, also feel even him elder sister abashed for this, once marry,give elder sister's husband it seems that, can be immersed in a society accordingly the most rock-bottom, cannot cross a body forever. Very long period of time, the family member discusses this marriage no longer. Later, elder sister's husband bought the thing of big package, riding autocycle to gallop to our home. For ceremony, parental reluctance leaves him to have a meal in the home. I think he is met impassioned publishs a speech one time, can take an in part till the meal, he also did not buy thesis. Finally, family look at each other in speechless despair, do not know this meal this how wind up, at this moment, elder sister's husband will make a cup of wine one drink and below, go up red face says: Dad, woman, I assure, no matter my this all one's life takes how many pain, won't let small pool suffer a bit grievance.
With respect to this one word, let determination was decided below the elder sister, marry elder sister's husband. And parents also sighs, dodge was put row.
After elder sister marriage gave birth to the child very quickly. That year, elder sister's husband did not go out to work, defend intently in the home, when noing hurry in the ground, search some come loose to work alive. Wait for the child to grow, when can saving some of strength, the labor contractor that elder sister's husband begins to follow another part of the country works a construction to provincial capital. Although be the same as in provincial capital, I and elder sister's husband never had met however. I ever tried to ask about the construction group that he is in, but the herdsman that they resemble chasing grass and resides, where to have the water and grass of lush, where be Prom dresses the place of perch, when the building of an air unplugs the ground and case, oppidan bee afflux goes, they the person that these perspiration bleed, be dismissed with a few money by the boss.
I am unaltered the book that reads me, trying hard to can stay in this city after graduation, him etc. which commands a broad view that allows small part arrives the altitude in that ideal. Such effort, make me finally successful after two years stay in this city, become the newspaper office journalist that one celebrity person envies.
Listen to an elder sister to say, elder sister's husband knows I became a journalist, excitement must lodge for the night to did not sleep good, find a newspaper office the following day, want to see one side with me. Regrettablly the pet name that he knows me only, it is not clear that he also writes down the school that I graduate, final entrance guard becomes him is a cheater, drove away him. Do not know what elder sister's husband has blamed for this, but he had not looked for me again from now on, also do not carry a reporter that I can be their defend sb against an injustice this before fellow workers.
The I am busy life that lets oneself is a bit better, be too busy to pay close attention to the life of elder sister's husband. Even once, their building site is in from our newspaper office hundreds of meters of far places, I fail to visit him however. It is accidental opportunity is informed from inside maternal mouth only, over, his foot is wrapped to be bungled by falls from the day cement, hate to part with in provincial capital be in hospital, be received to come home by fellow-townsman go recuperating. Because procrastinating,be not treated again, undertake wrapping up simply changing medicine in the home only, all but affects ……
When listening to these, I feel the old practice that resembles listening to others, on newspaper, constant regular meeting has a few accidents about the laborer, my be accustomed to sth. And elder sister's husband, he also becomes this is everything what the destiny gives him, early was used to, because, when I phone him to express to express sympathy and solicitude for, he just laughs simple and honestly, say, do not have what, do this, stumbling is constant some thing. A lot of moment, he also regarded these as really the normal of the life. We now and then get together, he tells a foreman salary of unjustifiable embezzle part of what should be issued, the fellow worker is sending high fever to climb scaffold, ramble be being stared at euqally by clerk thief when the supermarket …… is all these, he resembles telling the parent in short same, mood indifferently.
This year, the elder sister's daughter already 4 years old, had not seen high buildings and large mansions. I get her to play, pointing to nearby a building that building tells her, this is high-rise. Bub halts a footstep suddenly, admire a head to look at above the worker of come and go, ask: “ little one's mother's sister, is there father above that? ”
I raise a head, look at the farmer that there is burning sun to work with the wind on scaffold to be versed in, they are unplugging for the ground and the edifice insecurity that rise is working, but they from only then the propagandist language that comes to resemble edifice advertisement banner going up without time eventually in that way, have the bold and generous ” of “ regnant the world. Even, they lower their head to glance the time of the pedestrian on the ground is done not have repeatedly.
Shake again when niece shake my Bridal Gowns arm, ask, father above? I hold her in the arms rise, say: How does “ spit know father is met above work? She listened to ” , immediateness is happy rise, clap path: “ mom says father is the hero that builds a building. Little one's mother's sister, can I cry also father? ” I one terrified, immediately kisses the small cheek that kisses her, soft tone says: “ is OK of course, although you lose sight of father, but father can hear spit call ……”
Of this autumn day afternoon, I am holding spit in the arms, stand before managing the building with plangent machine, listen to her to admiring a head to call “ father ” . I see it seems that, on high scaffold, those busy man side come personally too, wirh fixed attention is looking attentively at us that picture is in …… flashy calm case, resemble a warm camera lens in the film, in engraving the memory that took me.
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